A calm mind allows the body to soften and the heart to open.

Alexys Gonzalez (They/Them)

Somatic Sex Therapist, Sexuality Educator, Expressive  Arts Therapist & Registered Yoga Teacher

LMHC, RYT-200

I hold a Master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and Art Therapy, with additional training in sex education and sex therapy. My somatic work is informed by my training and teaching in yoga, grounded in the wisdom of the nervous system and informed by polyvagal theory.

As a mixed-race (Southeast Asian and Hispanic), non-binary, queer, and neurodivergent therapist, my approach to therapy is shaped by both lived experience and clinical training. I recognize how identity, culture, and broader systems shape our experiences, relationships, and sense of self, and together we gently work with these layers while making space for your lived experience in a way that feels grounded, empowering, and non-judgmental.

I draw from Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), attachment theory, and narrative therapy to support you in understanding yourself more fully—your patterns, emotions, and relational dynamics—while cultivating more meaningful, connected relationships with yourself and others.

Reach out to schedule a consultation call and learn more about working together.

My Approach

My approach to therapy is relational, creative, body-aware, and rooted in curiosity, collaboration, and connection. I view healing as a process that happens not only through insight and conversation, but also through developing a deeper awareness of the mind, body, emotions, relationships, and nervous system.

This work creates space to slow down, explore patterns with compassion, and better understand the experiences that shape how we relate to ourselves and others. Alongside conversation, therapy may incorporate body-based practices such as breathwork, gentle movement, mindfulness, and meditation, alongside creative tools for expression and processing.

I value inclusivity, agency, and creating a supportive, nonjudgmental environment where you can show up fully as yourself. Through curiosity, compassionate self-exploration, and intentional reflection, deeper healing, connection, and self-understanding can unfold over time.

Rooted in curiosity, care, and connection

Somatic Therapy

Somatic therapy is a body-based approach that explores the connection between the mind, body, emotions, and nervous system. It recognizes that our experiences are not only held in our thoughts, but also in our bodies.

Alongside conversation, this work brings awareness to how stress, trauma, and lived experiences can be physically carried through tension, sensation, emotion, movement, and automatic nervous system responses. By noticing and understanding these responses, somatic therapy can help support emotional regulation, self-awareness, nervous system capacity, and a deeper sense of connection with yourself.

Sessions may incorporate mindfulness, grounding practices, breathwork, movement, or body awareness exercises, always at a pace that feels supportive and intentional. Over time, this process can help cultivate greater resilience, presence, and trust in your body and inner experience.

Art Therapy

Art therapy is a creative and expressive approach to exploring the emotional, relational, and psychological aspects of your inner experience.

It combines conversation with art-making, symbolism, imagery, and creative exploration to support deeper self-understanding, emotional processing, and connection. Rather than relying only on words, this work creates space to explore thoughts, emotions, memories, and experiences through creative expression in ways that may feel more accessible, intuitive, or embodied. The focus is not on artistic skill or creating something “good,” but on using creativity as a tool for reflection, insight, and healing.

Art therapy can support anxiety, trauma, stress, burnout, identity exploration, grief, life transitions, emotional overwhelm, self-esteem, relationship challenges, disconnection from self, or difficulty putting experiences into words.

Sex Therapy

Sex therapy is a pleasure-centered approach to exploring the emotional, relational, psychological, and physical aspects of sexuality, intimacy, and connection.

It is a specialized form of talk therapy that supports individuals and relationships in navigating challenges related to desire, communication, intimacy, sexual functioning, identity, and overall sexual well-being. Rather than focusing only on symptoms or behavior, this work looks at the deeper emotional and relational experiences shaping how you connect, communicate, experience intimacy, and move through the world.

People seek sex therapy for many different reasons, including concerns related to sex, intimacy, low desire, sexual anxiety, trauma, communication difficulties, mismatched libidos, identity, kink, non-monogamy, LGBTQIA+ experiences, body image, dating, and relationship challenges.