Alexys Gonzalez (they/them)

LMHC, RYT-200

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Somatic Sex Therapist, Sexuality Educator, Expressive Arts Therapist & Registered Yoga Teacher

I hold a Master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and Art Therapy, with additional training in sex education and sex therapy. My somatic work is informed by my training and teaching in yoga, grounded in the wisdom of the nervous system and informed by polyvagal theory—supporting you in understanding what helps you feel safe, connected, and more at ease. My approach is trauma-informed and incorporates body-based practices such as breathwork, gentle movement, mindfulness, and meditation, alongside creative tools for expression and processing.

As a mixed-race (Southeast Asian and Hispanic), non-binary, queer, and neurodivergent therapist, my approach to therapy is shaped by both lived experience and clinical training. I recognize how identity, culture, and broader systems shape our experiences, relationships, and sense of self, and together we gently work with these layers while making space for your lived experience in a way that feels grounded, empowering, and non-judgmental.

I draw from Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), attachment theory, and narrative therapy to support you in understanding yourself more fully—your patterns, emotions, and relational dynamics—while cultivating more meaningful, connected relationships with yourself and others.

My Approach

My approach to therapy is relational, creative, body-aware, and rooted in curiosity, collaboration, and connection. I view healing as a process that happens not only through insight and conversation, but also through developing a deeper awareness of the mind, body, emotions, relationships, and nervous system.

This work creates space to slow down, explore patterns with compassion, and better understand the experiences that shape how we relate to ourselves and others. Alongside conversation, therapy may incorporate mindfulness, nervous system awareness, somatic practices, creativity, reflection, or expressive exploration depending on your needs and comfort level.

I value inclusivity, agency, and creating a supportive, nonjudgmental environment where you can show up fully as yourself. Through curiosity, compassionate self-exploration, and intentional reflection, deeper healing, connection, and self-understanding can unfold over time.

  • Sex therapy is a pleasure-centered approach to exploring the emotional, relational, psychological, and physical aspects of sexuality, intimacy, and connection. It is a specialized form of talk therapy that supports individuals and relationships in navigating challenges related to desire, communication, intimacy, sexual functioning, identity, and overall sexual well-being.

    Rather than focusing only on symptoms or behavior, this work looks at the deeper emotional and relational experiences shaping how you connect, communicate, experience intimacy, and move through the world.

    People seek sex therapy for many different reasons, including concerns related to sex, intimacy, low desire, sexual anxiety, trauma, communication difficulties, mismatched libidos, identity exploration, painful sex, kink, non-monogamy, LGBTQIA+ experiences, body image, dating, and relationship challenges.

  • Art therapy is a creative and expressive approach to exploring the emotional, relational, and psychological aspects of your inner experience. It combines conversation with art-making, symbolism, imagery, and creative exploration to support deeper self-understanding, emotional processing, and connection.

    Rather than relying only on words, this work creates space to explore thoughts, emotions, memories, and experiences through creative expression in ways that may feel more accessible, intuitive, or embodied. The focus is not on artistic skill or creating something “good,” but on using creativity as a tool for reflection, insight, and healing.

    Art therapy can support anxiety, trauma, stress, burnout, identity exploration, grief, life transitions, emotional overwhelm, self-esteem, relationship challenges, disconnection from self, or difficulty putting experiences into words.

  • Somatic therapy is a body-based approach that explores the connection between the mind, body, emotions, and nervous system. Alongside conversation, this work brings awareness to how stress, trauma, and lived experiences can be physically carried through tension, sensation, emotion, movement, and automatic nervous system responses.

    By noticing and understanding these responses, somatic therapy can help support emotional regulation, self-awareness, nervous system capacity, and a deeper sense of connection with yourself.

    Sessions may incorporate mindfulness, grounding practices, breathwork, movement, or body awareness exercises, always at a pace that feels supportive and intentional. Over time, this process can help cultivate greater resilience, presence, and trust in your body and inner experience.

Rooted in Connection, care, and curiosity

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Frameworks That Guide My Work

  • This approach recognizes that our experiences are shaped not only by personal history, but also by broader systems such as race, gender, sexuality, culture, and power. Therapy becomes a space to explore how oppression, marginalization, and societal expectations impact your identity, relationships, and sense of self—without pathologizing your responses. Together, we make space for your lived experience, challenge internalized narratives, and support ways of relating that feel more aligned, authentic, and liberating. This work centers autonomy, dignity, and the right to exist fully as you are.

  • Attachment-based therapy explores how your early and ongoing relationships shape the way you connect, trust, and respond to closeness or distance. These patterns—often outside of awareness—can show up in how you navigate intimacy, conflict, vulnerability, and independence. Together, we begin to identify your attachment style and the protective strategies that developed over time, while creating new experiences of safety and responsiveness within the therapeutic relationship. This work supports more secure, flexible, and fulfilling connections with yourself and others.

  • EFT is grounded in attachment theory and focuses on the emotional patterns that shape how we connect in relationships. When disconnection happens, it often shows up in cycles—pursuing, withdrawing, shutting down, or escalating. Together, we slow these moments down to better understand the underlying emotions and needs driving them. By bringing awareness and new ways of responding, we work toward creating more secure, responsive, and emotionally attuned connections. This approach supports individuals and partners in feeling seen, understood, and more safely connected.

  • IFS understands the mind as made up of different “parts,” each with its own role, history, and intention. Some parts may protect, avoid, or react strongly, while others hold pain, vulnerability, or unmet needs. Rather than trying to change or silence these parts, we build a relationship with them—approaching each with curiosity and compassion. As we access a more grounded, centered sense of self, these parts can begin to soften, trust, and shift, supporting greater internal harmony, emotional regulation, and choicefulness in how you respond to your life.

  • Narrative therapy explores the stories you’ve come to hold about yourself, your relationships, and your place in the world. These stories are often shaped by past experiences, cultural messages, and internalized beliefs, and can sometimes feel limiting or fixed. Together, we begin to gently question and expand these narratives—separating you from the problem and making space for alternative ways of understanding yourself. This process supports a more flexible, empowered sense of identity, where you are not defined by a single story but have room to author new meanings and possibilities.

  • Polyvagal-informed therapy focuses on the nervous system and how your body responds to safety, stress, and connection. You may notice patterns such as anxiety, shutdown, overwhelm, or difficulty staying present—these are not failures, but adaptive responses. Together, we begin to track and understand these states, while developing tools to support regulation and flexibility. This might include working with breath, sensation, movement, and awareness. Over time, this work helps expand your capacity to feel grounded, connected, and more at ease in your body and relationships.

  • Trauma-informed therapy centers safety, collaboration, and respect for your pace. We work with an understanding of how past experiences—whether acute or ongoing—can shape the nervous system, sense of self, and relational patterns. This approach does not require you to retell or relive experiences before you’re ready. Instead, we focus on building stability, awareness, and internal resources, allowing healing to unfold in a way that feels supported and sustainable. The goal is to restore a sense of agency, trust in yourself, and the ability to move through your life with more ease and presence.

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