Anahata Somatic Therapy

Healing through connection, compassion, and embodied awareness

Hi, I’m Alexys

(they/them)

As a mixed-race (Southeast Asian and Hispanic), non-binary, queer, and neurodivergent therapist, my approach to therapy is shaped by both lived experience and clinical training. I recognize how identity, culture, and broader systems shape our experiences, relationships, and sense of self, and together we gently work with these layers while making space for your lived experience in a way that feels grounded, empowering, and non-judgmental.

I hold a Master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and Art Therapy, with additional training in sex education and sex therapy. My somatic work is informed by my training and teaching in yoga, grounded in the wisdom of the nervous system and informed by polyvagal theory—supporting you in understanding what helps you feel safe, connected, and more at ease.

As a sex therapist, I draw from Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), attachment theory, and narrative therapy to support you in understanding yourself more fully—your patterns, emotions, and relational dynamics—while cultivating more meaningful, connected relationships with yourself and others.

I integrate trauma-informed, body-based practices such as breathwork, gentle movement, mindfulness, and meditation, alongside creative tools for expression and processing. These approaches support regulation and deepen awareness, and are always optional and guided by what feels most supportive for you.

My Approach

  • This approach recognizes that our experiences are shaped not only by personal history, but also by broader systems such as race, gender, sexuality, culture, and power. Therapy becomes a space to explore how oppression, marginalization, and societal expectations impact your identity, relationships, and sense of self—without pathologizing your responses. Together, we make space for your lived experience, challenge internalized narratives, and support ways of relating that feel more aligned, authentic, and liberating. This work centers autonomy, dignity, and the right to exist fully as you are.

  • Attachment-based therapy explores how your early and ongoing relationships shape the way you connect, trust, and respond to closeness or distance. These patterns—often outside of awareness—can show up in how you navigate intimacy, conflict, vulnerability, and independence. Together, we begin to identify your attachment style and the protective strategies that developed over time, while creating new experiences of safety and responsiveness within the therapeutic relationship. This work supports more secure, flexible, and fulfilling connections with yourself and others.

  • EFT is grounded in attachment theory and focuses on the emotional patterns that shape how we connect in relationships. When disconnection happens, it often shows up in cycles—pursuing, withdrawing, shutting down, or escalating. Together, we slow these moments down to better understand the underlying emotions and needs driving them. By bringing awareness and new ways of responding, we work toward creating more secure, responsive, and emotionally attuned connections. This approach supports individuals and partners in feeling seen, understood, and more safely connected.

  • IFS understands the mind as made up of different “parts,” each with its own role, history, and intention. Some parts may protect, avoid, or react strongly, while others hold pain, vulnerability, or unmet needs. Rather than trying to change or silence these parts, we build a relationship with them—approaching each with curiosity and compassion. As we access a more grounded, centered sense of self, these parts can begin to soften, trust, and shift, supporting greater internal harmony, emotional regulation, and choicefulness in how you respond to your life.

  • Narrative therapy explores the stories you’ve come to hold about yourself, your relationships, and your place in the world. These stories are often shaped by past experiences, cultural messages, and internalized beliefs, and can sometimes feel limiting or fixed. Together, we begin to gently question and expand these narratives—separating you from the problem and making space for alternative ways of understanding yourself. This process supports a more flexible, empowered sense of identity, where you are not defined by a single story but have room to author new meanings and possibilities.

  • Polyvagal-informed therapy focuses on the nervous system and how your body responds to safety, stress, and connection. You may notice patterns such as anxiety, shutdown, overwhelm, or difficulty staying present—these are not failures, but adaptive responses. Together, we begin to track and understand these states, while developing tools to support regulation and flexibility. This might include working with breath, sensation, movement, and awareness. Over time, this work helps expand your capacity to feel grounded, connected, and more at ease in your body and relationships.

  • Trauma-informed therapy centers safety, collaboration, and respect for your pace. We work with an understanding of how past experiences—whether acute or ongoing—can shape the nervous system, sense of self, and relational patterns. This approach does not require you to retell or relive experiences before you’re ready. Instead, we focus on building stability, awareness, and internal resources, allowing healing to unfold in a way that feels supported and sustainable. The goal is to restore a sense of agency, trust in yourself, and the ability to move through your life with more ease and presence.

Rooted in Connection, care, and curiosity

Education

Somatic Integration Practitioner
Inner Wellspring Academy — April 2025

Somatic Mind-Body Healing Practitioner
Inner Wellspring Academy — April 2025

MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling w/ Art Therapy
Antioch University Seattle — December 2021

Certification in Sex Therapy
Antioch University Seattle — June 2021

Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level 1
Antioch University Seattle — January 2021

Certification in Sexuality Education
Antioch University Seattle — June 2020

BA in Art & Philosophy
Central Connecticut State University — May 2016

Advanced Training

Somatic & Embodiment

✦ Yin Yoga Certification | My Vinyasa Practice — March 2026
✦ Restorative Yoga Certification | My Vinyasa Practice — March 2026
✦ 200 Hour Hatha & Vinyasa YTT | School Yoga Institute — September 2025
✦ Somatic Integration Practitioner | Inner Wellspring Academy — April 2025
✦ Somatic Mind-Body Healing Practitioner | Inner Wellspring Academy — April 2025
✦ Somatic Sexual Healing | PNW Sex Therapy Collective — February 2024
✦ Somatic Theory and Oppression | Antioch University Seattle — October 2021
✦ 200 Mindfulness & Yoga Training | Yoga Farm Ithaca — January 2021

Relationships & Relational Work

✦ Out of Control Sexual Behavior (OCSB) | PNW Sex Therapy Collective — April 2025
✦ Conscious Uncoupling | PNW Sex Therapy Collective — January 2025
✦ Discernment Counseling | PNW Sex Therapy Collective — December 2024
✦ Out of Control Sexual Behavior (OCSB) | PNW Sex Therapy Collective — August 2022
✦ Special Topics: Attachment Theory | Antioch University Seattle — January 2021

Sexuality, Intimacy & Desire

✦ Sexuality, Ritual & Healing | ISEE — December 2024
✦ Advanced Sexual Attitude Reassessment (SAR): Sex and Drugs | ANTE UP! — October 2024
✦ Sexual Attitude Reassessment (SAR) | Antioch University Seattle — February 2023
✦ ADHD & Sex | PNW Sex Therapy Collective — October 2022
✦ Autism & Sexuality | PNW Sex Therapy Collective — April 2022
✦ Special Topics: Rape Culture & Sexuality | Antioch University Seattle — October 2021
✦ Special Topics in Sexuality: Fat Sex | Antioch University Seattle — July 2020
✦ Special Topics in Sexuality: Wheel of Consent | Antioch University Seattle — February 2020
✦ Sexual Attitude Reassessment | Antioch University Seattle — January 2020

Trauma, Identity & Systems

✦ Improving LGBTQ Treatment Outcomes Through Integration of Sexual Health — May 2020
✦ NCTSN Responding to LGBTQ Youth after Sexual Abuse | NCTSN — May 2020
✦ Adapting Trauma Focused Treatments for Culturally Diverse Populations | NCTSN — May 2020
✦ Mental Health Interventions for Culturally Diverse Populations | NCTSN — May 2020
✦ Impact of Polyvictimization on LGBTQ Youth & Adults | NCTSN — May 2020

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